Recently there was significant attention given in the Western Australian press to the actions of a group of UWA students who thought it was appropriate to create an event, vaguely associated with a university club, that advertised women’s tickets to ‘sluts’ but not ‘crying sluts’.
Profound men that these were they also included a survey for prospective attendees which questioned the women’s bra size and their capability in the field of fellatio. Because, these women having achieved the goal of attending one of the most prestigious universities in the country, should count themselves lucky to be in the company of the kinds of men which sign on to these events.
To those involved I can only say, most emphatically, STOP BEING DICKS.
No, really, just stop being such unimaginative, misogynistic fucking pricks.
To them, and those that think of engaging in similar hilarity, I inform you of a fact which it would appear has escaped you. Women are people too!
They appear women in shape and size and not simply as walking orifices to be penetrated. They have faces, and eyes and noses and mouths and they all have brains too. Brains that have thoughts, thoughts that you are all just massive dicks.
I don’t even want to accuse these sorts of events of backlash, they’re not that profound or well thought out. These events are not about backlash against the theories and ideas which demand equality, they are just massive, underdeveloped dicks.
Stop being this way, no one really thinks it’s funny and I like to believe that we now live in a world where this sort of behaviour is no longer accepted by mainstream society. A society which has realised what these people have not. That women are not things but people, not orifices but individuals, not sluts but women.
There is, as with most things, a significant downside and danger to these sorts of events. Which is, that these sorts of ideas feed into a concept which says that women are worth less than men. These ideas and events translate into an acceptance and condoning of a society which allows violence against women to continue.
In the Talk About It survey of 2010/2011 86% of women reported being sexually harassed on campus. 67% reported having an unwanted sexual experience. The acceptance of these statistics is an acceptance of these sort of attitudes. To continue this behaviour is to state that women are some how worth less than men. That they have some less intrinsic value. This is an attitude which must be rejected.
We as a society, as a community, need to stand up and say emphatically Women are people too- stop being such massive dicks.
I don’t think it’s funny, I think it’s harmful. And so does nearly everyone else.
As a group we need to stand up to these people. Until we do more than half of the women you go to uni with will experience unwanted sexual experiences. More than three quarters will be harassed on campus. They will be heckled, they will be abused and they will be raped.
Enough is e-fucking-nough .
Stop being dicks.
“… more than half of the women you go to uni with will experience unwanted sexual experiences. More than three quarters will be harassed on campus. They will be heckled, they will be abused and they will be raped.”
Hyperbole, much? Is an inappropriate wolf-whistle on the same level as rape? It would also be helpful to know how this survey mentioned in your article defined “sexual harrassment”.
Otherwise, yes, I agree. Guys who are dicks: not cool.
This makes me think I should open a new area on my website for women that are just plain horrible. In association with this site’s area about men being ‘dicks’, I’ll call it “Women – stop being cunts”